■ 🕑 1. It's good to send emails to friends.
│ As life goes on, and we separate from people we cared about before,
│ it remains a great practice to send emails to old friends every now
│ and then.
│
│ It's not essential AT ALL to make a Facebook / Instagram / Tiktok
│ / LinkedIn / whatever to stay in touch with old friends. If anything,
│ people are more likely to keep their old mail address as trendy
│ spyware apps come and go.
│
│ Equally, it's easier to keep a friend's mail address for long spans
│ of time than phone numbers -- and the kinds of communications we make
│ over email tend to be more meaningful than the kinds we may make on
│ text-adjacent platforms like Whatsapp or Signal, Telegram, etc.
│
│ Do you ever send mails to your old pals?
│ When was the last time you sent a personal email?
│
│ If you know any old friends' emails, maybe this thread can serve as
│ a timely reminder to fire them off a message. Or, maybe it can serve
│ as inspiration to exchange email addresses with your friends today.
│
│ I hope this thread can encourage you to write someone an email,
│ or save someone's email address if you don't have many. Email is a
│ great way to maintain friendships over time and distance -- even if
│ it's "not trendy" it's also not bad! You would be surprised about
│ how many people would be pleased to get an email that's not spam
│ from GoogBookBankShopApp and take the time to write a caring,
│ thoughtful response back to you.
│
├─■ 🕑 2.
│ I'd been neglecting my inbox for some time and when I logged on, I saw
│ that a dear old friend had sent me a chain of messages mixed in among
│ the inevitable newsletters and various other forms of spam
│
│ He asked me how I was doing and told me he was quitting drinking....
│ Then he sent some long emails about how gangstalkers from region X
│ followed him to region Y and were putting pressure on him.
│
│ Sent an email he regretted sending and then another apologizing for
│ the recent involvement, said he was looking forward to future messages
│ if I still considered him to be a friend.
│
│ It was fun writing up a !!! 5 page response !!! about life updates
│ and observations.
│
│ Email is timeless, much like textboards. Whether you answer a week or
│ month later, you will probably be responded to properly in due time.
│ Email is the patient man's game, like many of the best things in life
│
└─■ 🕑 3.
│ i never used email for anything other than confirmation links and i never
│ needed to send emails to my friends since we lived so close, if i ever
│ had to talk to them i'd just ride my bike to their house
│ that changed when i moved, but by that time we were already using messaging
│ apps on our phones, not ideal since i'm now doing everything i can to stay
│ away from those spyware in disguise while they don't care
│
└─■ 🕑 4.
│ You may be able to get friends to install Signal...
│ the install process is painless and it's not like they have to do
│ anything complicated to use it (you text them, they get a notification)
│
│ I managed to get my 60 something year old parents on it no problem.
│
│ Email isn't really spyware-free since most people end up using Google
│ or whatever, but at least you don't feel pressured to respond quickly.
│ What I hate most about FB messenger (and WhatsApp, Instagram, etc):
│ that it shows "last active" and has read receipts.
│
└─■ 🕑 5.
unfortunately almost all of my friends are the stubborn/complacent type when
it comes to phones and computers, I tried to get them on something else
in the past but with limited success (only one of them gave in)